Dave DePew at Grinder Gym

I help operators build the systems they should have built years ago.

Strength culture. Business systems. AI-augmented operations. 32 years in. Still in.

What I’m working on

Grinder Gym

The 19-year independent strength gym in San Diego where the methodology gets tested daily. Same operator, since 2007.

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Executive Coaching

1-on-1 work with gym owners and male business operators tired of being the bottleneck. Three tiers, hard caps, application-only.

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Weekly newsletter. One operating principle, one tactical move, one personal note. Most issues 4 minutes or less.

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What I really am

I know what it feels like to build something up… only to burn it back down yourself. Not because you’re lazy. Not because you aren’t capable. Because you became the bottleneck.

I lived in that cycle for years. Bankrupt. Six figures in debt. Running a gym that depended entirely on me showing up every day. At 51 years old, I finally learned the thing nobody had taught me in 32 years of coaching: you do not scale by working harder. You scale by building systems that remove yourself from low-level operational dependency.

In roughly 3 months, business revenue tripled. My wife and I took a real vacation together for the first time in nearly 30 years. That mattered more than the money.

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The Operator’s Stack

Weekly. Short. Real. Useful. One operating principle, one tactical move, one personal note. Most issues 4 minutes or less.